
Entering May with Gratitude, Healing, and Hope
By Dr. Altreisha Foster-Bentho, Founder & President, Cake Therapy Foundation
Owner: Sugarspoon Desserts
Author: Cake Therapy: How Baking Changed My Life
Host: The Cake Therapy Podcast
www.altreishafoster.com
May is Mental Health Awareness Month — a month dedicated to reflection, awareness, healing, and honest conversations about emotional wellbeing.
For the Cake Therapy Foundation, this month holds special meaning.
We are entering May carrying the joy and momentum of an incredibly meaningful April. Just weeks ago, our community gathered for the Cake Therapy Foundation’s Spring Dessert Experience — an afternoon that reminded us that healing work is never done alone. The room was filled with laughter, storytelling, desserts, volunteers, mentors, supporters, artists, bakers, parents, and community members who all came together because they believe in something bigger than cake.
They believe in people.
They believe in girls.
They believe in healing.
And as we step into Mental Health Awareness Month, we find ourselves reflecting deeply on what the work of emotional wellness truly looks like in real life and in real communities.
Because mental health awareness is not only about recognizing struggle.
It is also about creating spaces where people can breathe again.
Sometimes healing looks like therapy.
Sometimes it looks like rest.
Sometimes it looks like community.
And sometimes healing looks like a young girl standing in a kitchen for the first time realizing:
“I am capable of creating something beautiful.”
At the Cake Therapy Foundation, we often say that the kitchen is a metaphor. That phrase has become central to who we are because the kitchen represents so much more than baking. It represents transformation.
In the kitchen:
- ingredients come together to create something new,
- mistakes can be corrected,
- patience matters,
- creativity matters,
- confidence grows,
- and people gather.
For many of the girls we serve, the kitchen becomes a safe and culturally familiar space where they can slow down, connect with mentors, process emotions, practice teamwork, build confidence, and experience joy without judgment.
In today’s world, that matters more than ever.
Young people are navigating enormous pressures — academic stress, social media comparisons, family instability, financial hardship, anxiety, grief, loneliness, violence, identity struggles, and the emotional weight of simply trying to figure out who they are becoming.
Many of them are expected to carry adult-sized burdens while still learning how to understand themselves emotionally. And too often, young people — especially girls from under-resourced communities — are praised for surviving while rarely being given the space to simply feel.
That is part of why the work of Cake Therapy exists.
We believe emotional wellbeing should not be a luxury.
We believe healing spaces should feel accessible and familiar.
We believe creativity can become a bridge to confidence and connection.
Over the last few years, we have watched girls walk into our programs shy, guarded, uncertain, and disconnected — only to slowly begin opening up through conversation, creativity, teamwork, and mentorship. We have seen young people discover leadership skills they did not know they possessed. We have watched confidence grow one cupcake, one conversation, and one moment at a time.
And while our programs involve baking, our mission has always been about something deeper.
It is about belonging.
It is about helping young people understand that they matter beyond their productivity, beyond their trauma, and beyond the expectations placed on them by the world.
As we reflect on the success of our Spring Dessert Experience fundraiser, we are reminded that our community understands this mission deeply.
The event was beautiful not simply because of the desserts or décor, but because it represented collective care.
Every volunteer who showed up early.
Every vendor who donated their time and talent.
Every guest who purchased a ticket.
Every sponsor.
Every silent auction contribution.
Every social media share.
Every conversation about the foundation.
All of it mattered.
The event was a reminder that healing work takes community investment.
We are incredibly grateful to everyone who helped bring the Dessert Experience to life. From the beautiful welcome installations and floral touches to the bakers, photographers, volunteers, storytellers, and supporters — every detail reflected love, generosity, and belief in our mission.
But perhaps the most important thing the event represented was possibility.
Possibility for expansion.
Possibility for deeper impact.
Possibility for more girls to access emotionally supportive spaces.
As we enter Mental Health Awareness Month, we are not simply celebrating awareness. We are thinking about action.
What does it mean to create communities where young people feel emotionally safe?
What does it mean to normalize conversations around stress, anxiety, identity, and healing?
What does it mean to create programs that support emotional wellness before crisis occurs?
These are the questions that continue to guide our work.
At the Cake Therapy Foundation, we know we cannot solve every challenge facing young people. But we also know that small moments matter. Safe spaces matter. Mentorship matters. Representation matters. Joy matters.
There is something deeply powerful about allowing young people to create with their hands while simultaneously reminding them that they are worthy of care, attention, patience, and support.
For some girls, Cake Therapy becomes one of the first spaces where they feel truly seen.
That is something we never take lightly.
This month, we encourage our community to think about mental wellness in broader and more compassionate ways.
Mental health awareness can look like:
- checking in on a friend,
- asking for help,
- setting boundaries,
- finding moments of rest,
- reconnecting with creativity,
- supporting youth programs,
- spending time in community,
- or simply giving yourself permission to not have everything figured out.
Healing is not always linear.
Growth is not always visible.
And strength does not always look like endurance.
Sometimes strength looks like softness.
Sometimes it looks like vulnerability.
Sometimes it looks like beginning again.
We also encourage our community to explore the growing body of work around culinary healing and therapeutic kitchens. This month, consider picking up Cooking Your Way to Calm by Julie Ohana, a thoughtful exploration of how cooking and creativity can support emotional wellbeing and mindfulness.
And if you are looking for a simple way to reconnect with yourself this month, we encourage you to bake one of the recipes from Cake Therapy: How Baking Changed My Life by Dr. Altreisha Foster. Choose a recipe slowly. Put your phone down. Play music. Invite your children, your friends, or your family into the kitchen. Allow yourself to experience the process — not just the outcome.
Because sometimes healing begins with something as simple as measuring ingredients, mixing batter, and remembering that you deserve moments of peace too.
As a foundation, we remain deeply committed to creating spaces where girls can grow emotionally, creatively, and confidently. We remain committed to using the therapeutic kitchen model as a culturally grounded pathway to connection, confidence, and community wellbeing.
And we remain hopeful.
Hopeful because we continue to see what happens when people come together with intention. Hopeful because we know healing is possible. Hopeful because every single girl deserves the opportunity to discover her value, her voice, and her potential.
So as we enter May, we do so with gratitude.
Gratitude for the community that surrounds us.
Gratitude for every girl who trusts us with her story.
Gratitude for every supporter who believes in this mission.
And gratitude for the reminder that healing can begin in ordinary spaces — even in the kitchen.
May is Mental Health Awareness Month.
And at the Cake Therapy Foundation, awareness will always be paired with compassion, creativity, community, and action.
With gratitude, hope, and purpose,
Dr. Altreisha Foster-Bentho
Founder & President
The Cake Therapy Foundation



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